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I no longer like a member of my favorite group. Advice?

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  • 2025-08-28 21:35 event
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Without saying any names, a while ago one member of my favorite group got into a controversy. It wasn't career ending or anything that serious but I personally disliked their attitude during that time and now I can't help seeing them differently. Because of that I decided to take a break from the group as a whole to decide what to do but even now I'm still very conflicted: on one hand I miss stanning the group more closely and I still really like the other members, on the other my mood sours everytime I think of that one person. There's no doubt that I'll keep listening to their music, but for me to stan a group, the extra content is really important as well. So I'm writing this to ask if anyone has ever been in my position and how they dealt with it. Did you ignore this one member or gave up on the group as a whole? Do you have any tips? (To clarify: I don't hate this member or anything, I'm not becoming an anti. I never even talked about this openly on any social media and I plan to keep it that way. It's one of the reason why I haven't revealed the name. The other is that I don't want people to tell me how to feel about this specific "scandal", I've already given myself time to reflect on that and as much as I feel sorry because this member was one of my top biases, I can't force myself to like someone, no matter how much I try to rationalize their behaviour) submitted by /u/dramamamamadra [link] [comments]

29. Why is there so much doomposting in kpop?

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I get that as fans we want our favorite groups to have all the success and recognition they deserve, but sometimes it feels a bit too much and honestly kind of annoying. What’s even more strange is that most of the groups are already some of the most popular ones, so I don’t really get it. And sometimes it’s not even the actual fans of the group doomposting, so why are they so worried about the group’s success in the first place? Then there’s also the case of groups that have just debuted and fans already expect them to be the next big sensation. I admit that K-pop is a very competitive and fast-paced industry, but I don’t think it’s healthy to expect a group to be instantly super successful. There are so many artists around the world who started out small and only got recognized with time, why not let kpop groups also have the time to build their identity and prove themselves? And when it comes to groups that may have already reached their “peak,” I can understand why fans want them to become even more popular, but I also think sometimes we need to accept that our favorite group won’t always be number one. But some people also need to understand that after a peak if the fanbase is not constantly growing very fast it's not a downfall if there is still a big and loyal core fandom. Longevity is better that instant virality. I honestly think this mentality is part of the reason why so many groups debut and keep coming back so quickly. It’s because they need to stay relevant as fans move on as soon as the hype dies down. I also think doomposting plays a role in groups losing hype. People act like a comeback or debut that isn’t well received defines the group’s entire career. As a result, casual K-pop fans form a negative impression and stop paying attention, which is a shame. submitted by /u/Technical_Walrus9158 [link] [comments]

30. Need a friend to go to Txt day 1 with

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Hello everyone!! I’m thinking of buying the together package for day 1 of Newark and was wondering if anyone with the same package would wanna go together? I would be going solo and would love a friend to be with during the concert! I’m 21F btw. Thanks y’all! Btw if anyone wants a friend to go with and is thinking of buying in a different section then I would totally be down to buy a different section together as well! :) submitted by /u/FarNeighborhood4025t [link] [comments]

31. KATSEYE to perform at Festival Estéreo Picnic 2026

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32. KATSEYE and RIIZE to perform at Lollapalooza Argentina, Brasil, and Chile 2026

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36. Aito from 1verse was just the first and only kpop idol to cover the 1&only dance

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The only other idol was Lego from the Thai group lykn submitted by /u/xlov_mother_muti [link] [comments]

37. Give me a boy group song and I will give you a girl group song, or vice versa.

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Please comment one song, either from a boy group or girl group, and I will attempt to match the vibe with a song from the opposite gendered group! submitted by /u/archertinuvian [link] [comments]

38. I no longer like a member of my favorite group. Advice?

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Without saying any names, a while ago one member of my favorite group got into a controversy. It wasn't career ending or anything that serious but I personally disliked their attitude during that time and now I can't help seeing them differently. Because of that I decided to take a break from the group as a whole to decide what to do but even now I'm still very conflicted: on one hand I miss stanning the group more closely and I still really like the other members, on the other my mood sours everytime I think of that one person. There's no doubt that I'll keep listening to their music, but for me to stan a group, the extra content is really important as well. So I'm writing this to ask if anyone has ever been in my position and how they dealt with it. Did you ignore this one member or gave up on the group as a whole? Do you have any tips? (To clarify: I don't hate this member or anything, I'm not becoming an anti. I never even talked about this openly on any social media and I plan to keep it that way. It's one of the reason why I haven't revealed the name. The other is that I don't want people to tell me how to feel about this specific "scandal", I've already given myself time to reflect on that and as much as I feel sorry because this member was one of my top biases, I can't force myself to like someone, no matter how much I try to rationalize their behaviour) submitted by /u/dramamamamadra [link] [comments]

39. gugudan Kang Mina - THE STAR Magazine (September 2025 Issue Pictorial Preview - Kang Mina in Wonderland)

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40. Why YG need to used ads on an announcement video??

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You cannot tell me this is not ads cs the likes didn't match the views. If it's ads for music videos I agree for marketing purpose but this just literally an announcement video why they need to used ads for that too?? submitted by /u/Party-Confection417 [link] [comments]

41. Vote for your favorite female idol based on their birthday (21st)

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Rules: • ⁠You can comment on the same idol more than once, but only the comment with the most upvotes will count. For example, if there are many comments for Idol A with 1 upvote each, but one comment for Idol B has more upvotes, then Idol B wins. • ⁠Comments that mention more than one idol will be disqualified submitted by /u/ConnectionOk8413 [link] [comments]

42. Give me your favourite group and I say my fav vocalist, dancer, Rapper and visual!

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43. If you where at a party, what song would you put on to get people on the dance floor?

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my choices: silver spoon - BTS TMI - HOT PLACE wiggle wiggle - hello Venus (actual bop) submitted by /u/Something-Somewhere_ [link] [comments]

44. Fear & Posing In Korea: A Crash Course In K-pop Curiosity At IVE's Third Fan Concert [Feature]

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When my wife and I found ourselves with a long layover in Seoul, South Korea in early April, we assumed that we knew enough about the phenomenon of Korean popular music to go see the girl group IVE perform its Third Fan Concert at the KSPO Dome, the capital city’s 15,000-capacity Olypmic gymnastics arena. We went into our crash course in K-pop curiosity expecting to find familiarity amid the inevitable differences. We left feeling bewildered and fascinated and alien, like unwitting impostors on the verge of being outed. At every step along the way, our evening at IVE’s Third Fan Concert in Seoul was a jarring reminder of the world’s vastness—of just how much we didn’t know. Read the full story here. Signed, Two new IVE superfans. ----- Table of Contents – Fear & Posing In Korea: A Crash Course In K-pop Curiosity 1. GETTING IN 2. CONCOURSE OF CURIOSITY 3. HELL YEAH, K-POP! 4. POSING 5. SPIRALING 6. SURFACING 7. FEAR 8. GETTING OUT 9. FRIED CHICKEN & FAMILIAR FACES submitted by /u/contemplatingjazz [link] [comments]

45. Should I go to Twice's concert? They came back to my country after 6 years.

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Idk if this is the right sub to post this so I apologise if it's the wrong one. I'm not a huge fan of Twice as I'm mostly a bg stan but they are my favourite girl group. I know all their mainstream songs and a some bsides. I'm not familiar with their solo songs tho(but if i decide to go to concert, I will definitely listen and learn the lyrics to their solo songs). I have always heard people saying Twice concert's are one of the best and everyone should go to a Twice concert once in their life. I only truly enjoy concerts when I know all the songs the artist will be performing. So i'm having a hard time deciding if i should go as there's only 2 months left. Pls help me out😭 submitted by /u/straykids_blucurtain [link] [comments]

46. [READ FULL POST] Vote for your favourite female K-pop idols based on their birth year (1992)

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1993: 🥇IU (Soloist) - 45 upvotes 🥈Eunji (Apink) - 11 upvotes 🥉Luna (f(x)) - 8 upvotes 1994: 🥇Seulgi (Red Velvet) - 102 upvotes 🥈Wendy (Red Velvet) - 55 upvotes 🥉Bae Suzy (Ex miss A/Soloist) - 42 upvotes 1995: 🥇Nayeon (TWICE) - 73 upvotes 🥈Wheein and Hwasa (Mamamoo) - 18 upvotes TIE 🥉Kwon Eunbi (Soloist) - 17 upvotes 1996: 🥇Sana (TWICE) - 78 upvotes 🥈Jeongyeon (TWICE) - 40 upvotes 🥉Momo (TWICE) - 33 upvotes 1997: 🥇Jihyo (TWICE) - 80 upvotes 🥈Mina (TWICE) - 52 upvotes 🥉Miyeon (i-dle) - 22 upvotes 1998: 🥇Dahyun (TWICE) - 37 upvotes 🥈Sakura (LE SSERAFIM) - 31 upvotes 🥉Soyeon (i-dle) - 19 upvotes 1999: 🥇Tzuyu (TWICE) - 76 upvotes 🥈Chaeyoung (TWICE) - 50 upvotes 🥉Yuqi (i-dle) - 30 upvotes 2000: 🥇Yeji (ITZY) - 80 upvotes 🥈Chaewon (LE SSERAFIM) - 71 upvotes 🥉Shuhua (i-dle) - 48 upvotes 2001: 🥇Winter (Aespa) - 70 upvotes 🥈Ryujin (ITZY) - 55 upvotes 🥉Chaeryeong (ITZY) - 38 upvotes 2002: 🥇Ningning (Aespa) - 67 upvotes 🥈Lily (NMIXX) - 36 upvotes 🥉Gaeul (IVE) - 35 upvotes 2003: 🥇An Yujin (IVE) - 62 upvotes 🥈Haewon (NMIXX) and Yuna (ITZY) - 59 upvotes TIE 🥉Kazuha (LE SSERAFIM) - 47 upvotes 2004: 🥇Wonyoung (IVE) - 92 upvotes 🥈Bae (NMIXX) - 44 upvotes 🥉Sullyoon (NMIXX) - 42 upvotes 2005: 🥇Jiwoo (NMIXX) - 62 upvotes 🥈Pharita (Babymonster) - 21 upvotes 🥉Cocona (XG) - 18 upvotes 2006: 🥇Eunchae (LE SSERAFIM) - 66 upvotes 🥈Kyujin (NMIXX) - 51 upvotes 🥉Asa (Babymonster) - 5 upvotes 2007: 🥇Leeseo (IVE) - 28 upvotes 🥈Wonhee (ILLIT) - 27 upvotes 🥉Kim Soomin (tripleS) - 12 upvotes Rules: You can comment on the same idol more than once, but only the comment with the most upvotes will count. For example, if there are many comments for Idol A with 1 upvote each, but one comment for Idol B has more upvotes, then Idol B wins. Comments that mention more than one idol will be disqualified. The second and third most upvoted idols will be given honourable mentions in the post. Please write the name of the group or add “soloist” if she’s a soloist. Reminder: Please read the title and follow the rules properly. There is a male version on another account. Please don’t ask me to add male idols. submitted by /u/mirroway [link] [comments]

47. IVE - Comeback Interview for XOXZ (with MCs ZEROBASEONE (ZB1) Sung Hanbin & BOYNEXTDOOR Myung Jaehyun) @ Mnet M Countdown (250828)

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