I’ve been thinking about how “hard work” is constantly celebrated in K-pop and not just hard work, but extreme, almost self-destructive effort. We see idols praised for practicing through injuries, performing while sick, pushing through mental health issues without break. Crying on stage from exhaustion is seen as passion. Losing sleep becomes a sign of dedication. Skipping meals = discipline. And when idols don’t show these signs of suffering, people question whether they’re truly trying. It makes me wonder: When did burnout become proof that you “deserve” success in K-pop? What’s even more complicated is how fans participate in this dynamic. We cheer when idols go “above and beyond,” but what if “beyond” is dangerous? Why do some people call an idol “lazy” for taking a hiatus, but admire another for overworking themselves into a hospital visit? This isn't just about companies being exploitative (though that’s a huge part). I think the fandom plays a role too. Somewhere along the way, “working hard” stopped being about effort and became about endurance. How much can you sacrifice? How much pain can you push through? And honestly... If someone we loved was living like this, would we call it admirable? Or would we be worried? submitted by /u/Seesawey [link] [comments]
When did ‘working yourself to death’ become a compliment in K-pop?
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