“I want her, not him”, “Do we get a mom now?” Likeee stop. We know you’re crying behind the screen when your favorite male idol starts dating, no need to cope like this and try to seem unbothered. Can’t you see how try hard it sounds? To not say it’s absolutely cringe and most likely uncomfortable for that man’s girlfriend. You’re a part of his professional life, she’s a part of his personal life. She has nothing to do with you and it should be kept that way. A simple “Congratulations” will suffice. She did not sign up to be in his professional life and in the spotlight when she got with him. “But it’s better than crying because he’s dating” no. They’re both just as cringe. You don’t need to be an extreme or the other. You can be pretty much neutral or a normal amount of happy for him without being a try hard. “But I’m bi and she’s genuinely pretty” again, she did not sign up for being in his professional life and having attention on her, especially this type of attention. (The situation is hypothetical, I’m not refering to any idol in particular) submitted by /u/Alt-btch [link] [comments]
“She’s OUR girlfriend now”
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