So I used to admire BTS a lot. Ngl I was a proper stan. I got to know about them in 2019 and for like 4 years I was such a simp. I watched literally everything about them official content, fan edits, interviews, even random fan theories lol. I laughed with them, cried over them and honestly didn't even feel the need to have "real" people around me because I was so deep into it. But over time I realized I was kinda stuck in the same place irl. Like nothing in my life was actually moving forward while I was binging content. Slowly and naturally I just stopped keeping up with them. I didn't feel the need to check every update or watch every video. I still admire them for what they've achieved, but it’s definitely not the same anymore. The fandom tho…oh man. Once you're in, you realize how toxic it can get. It's mostly young girls acting like their whole world depends on BTS and honestly, it's just cringey to me now. The silly edits, the overreactions, the "defending bts" at every chance, even picking fights online it's too much. Some even think they’re destined to marry them?? Like, what?? And let's be real the members are literally in their 30s now but still behave like teenagers sometimes. Just today a friend sent me a reel of a TXT member holding Jin's butt and she was fangirling over how "cute" it was. Like…he's 32 and TXT are in their early 20s. How is that "cute"? Shouldn’t there be some decency at this point? Idk maybe I'm just growing up but all this feels so off to me now. submitted by /u/CardiologistSea314 [link] [comments]
Used to cry over BTS now I just cringe. Anyone else?
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